My American story – Nonye Aghanya

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What do you spend the most time thinking about?

How to share information on ways we can exude warmth and build trust with others through the effective use of soft skills of communication despite diverse beliefs, ideologies, attitudes.

What is something you will NEVER do again?

I can’t think of anything that I will NEVER do again. I guess it’s safe to say that I’m a risk taker…😊

What are some of the events in your life that made you who you are?

Getting married early in life at age 19 years, coming to America and going through and overcoming marital difficulties to remarry 8 years later to my current husband has been a blessing in disguise. Through my 2 marriages, I have 4 beautiful daughters (ages 28, 18, 13 and 8 years) and from each daughter, I have learned the life skills for daily living (defiance, strength, compassion, and persistence)

 What is the strangest thing you have come across?

As humans, no one is perfect, and we are inherently plagued by human inadequacies. However, I find it strange that trying to point out some of the faults that exist in the USA (especially as a human of African descent), could get one to be easily labelled as racist rather than a realist.

What are you addicted to?

I am addicted to singing praises to the Lord and praying.

As you get older, what are you becoming more and more afraid of?

Nonye Aghanya

 I’m becoming more afraid that technological advancements in communication will gradually erode the human qualities (vulnerabilities & transparencies) that enable us to form more genuine connections with heart to heart honest interactions.

What song or artist do you like but rarely admit to liking?

I like Frank Edwards music. Recently, I am beginning to like Afro beats songs from many Nigerian artists as Flavor, PSquared, Davido (I think that’s his name?? 😊)

If life is a game as some people say, what are some of the rules?

In the game of life, always bring your “A” game but know that it may sometimes not be good enough to secure a win, but never give up….keep trying.

What’s the most surprising self-realization you’ve had?

That I’m able to gain people’s attention and trust by helping to create a tranquil environment through modes of engagement by utilizing various effective communication styles.

What do you regret not doing?

I don’t really have any regrets yet about not doing something….and hopefully it stays that way.

What gives your life meaning?

Being able to have a patient who was initially reluctant to engage with me, display diminished anxiety while becoming comfortable during his/her clinical consultation with me and at the end, say “Thank you”  with a warm smile/hand shake and truly mean it.

What are you most insecure about?

My biggest fear is to age without grace, especially with the new grey hairs I’m suddenly getting each month 😊!

How do you get in the way of your own success?

By sometimes being an overachiever, I get in the way of my success. I must remind myself to stop and smell the roses occasionally.

What are you afraid people see when they look at you?

I’m afraid that many may not take my message seriously because of its very simple and yet easily applicable format.

What’s one thing you did you really wish you could go back and undo?

I once blurted out in an interview that I am very friendly and easy to talk to and following that appearance, received many marriage proposals! It was a teachable moment as I now tread lightly to maintain that fine line between being approachable and yet being happily married.

When do you feel truly alive?

When I am worshipping with my whole being.

What do you like most about your family?

My family’s ever intriguing story reflects who I am and my purpose on earth.

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Nonye Aghanya, husband and three of the four daughters
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39 COMMENTS

  1. Brilliant piece, Nonye. You’ve always been a generous delightful person. Some things never change. You continue to touch lives. Wishing you blessings.

  2. Insprining as well as thought provoking Nonye, a life lesson to be more human and productive in life- Keep inspiring.

  3. Nonye,

    Story beautifully told. You sure have come a long way and by grace you have many more beautiful years ahead.

    I love your love for the Lord.

    Keep the light burning and shining bright.

  4. Your story is full of quiet strength and confidence. You have also inspired many younger people out there that there is no discrimination against excellence.

  5. What an inspiring story Nonye. You must have really worked hard to get to where you are today. It takes someone with a strong personality and strong belief in God to surmount what you went through at a young age . Well done and keep on with the wonderful work you are doing and don’t forget to keep the smile also.

  6. You are such a wonderful, generous person, not only does it shows when you SMILE, but also in person. It’s been my pleasure to get know you and your family in the past 6 or so years Nonye. I wish everyone who comes to know you will not take long to see wonderful you really are! Your patients are blessed to have you and I hope you continue your journey in with more blessings with you and your family. The love you have have people are sooo amazing! Keep up the good work and I am very proud of you 👍👌

  7. You have my prayers and support, Nonye. Keep on pressing forward towards that goal God has called you to receive.

  8. Thank you for sharing.
    You have had an Interesting and Inspiring life in the USA, Keep up with the addiction of singing praises to The LORD and Praying, may HE continue to guide you in your future endeavors.

    Regards,
    Segun Seye Israel.

  9. My Beautiful friend Nonye

    I cannot say how touched I was by every single word of your story . If I need to say my favorite ones, I would just copy and paste ! You are such a beautiful person , the kind of a rare brand and I would love to see more in our lost word .

    I am very blessed to be your friend and I hope we can meet personally one day .
    May God Bless you and your lovely family .

    Much Love

  10. Hi Nonye,
    It is indeed a great joy read your story here on TNA.
    Good to know a bit more about you and your actitivites since almost 3 decades in the US.
    Thanks for sharing almost everything about your life in nutshell thru this interview. I really like the answer you made for the question what are you addicted to? Your answer is the best one as that should be the ultimate aim of every child of God on this earth.
    The other answers too is well said. altogether it is a great experience to read thru.
    Keep up the good work.
    Wish you and yours all the best in the future life in US.
    Keep going.
    One small sorrow! you presented all the 3 kids, but, sad what about the other little one?
    PS:
    A word to the TNA USA, hey why are you keeping your pages as not copy and paste free. If this option is given the cocmment authors can make soild comments on your posts. Anyways happy to be here for the first time. will visit again to read more. Keep sharing.
    All the best.
    ~Philip @ pvariel

  11. …Say Thank you with a warm smile…”
    Dear Nonye you are a very good person.
    Great story.
    Best wishes from Macedonia!

  12. Great to share your story with us and other aspiring emigrant. I wish you a successful stay in the US. God bless you

  13. Thank you so much Nonye

    For making one feel as smiling

    And for wishing

    That you smile always

    Thank you for being so refreshing

    In giving guidance

    Best wishes

    Michèle

  14. Your story is Inspiring. Never knew you married an Ivorian? Blessed with beauty and Brains. Nonye, Your Amazing! Nice Featured share.

  15. Very interesting interview. Thank you to Nonye for giving readers chance to know her more.

  16. Amazing interview Nonye. The efforts are clearly can be seen in your interview. Great answers by the great Leader Nonye.

    Wish you all the success
    #nursingconnect

  17. Great conversation Nonye! Your resilience, your journey and your passion are all very evident in your words here. You’re doing incredible things and I wish you the very best to soar higher in life always! Onwards and up my friend!

  18. Telling story is an art and when is based on pragmatic way that nothing like it.
    Further taking initiative is the most important factor which inspire others.
    Thank you for sharing !!!

  19. 👏👏👏Kudos Nonye! We can all learn a little more from you! Thank you for sharing your inspiring story!!

  20. Beautiful interview,thank you dearly Nonye ,appreciate your all efforts and all you are doing.
    Warm wishes from Istanbul Turkey Nesli

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